Becoming Aware of Defence Mechanisms

So you have decided one or more of your behaviours is a problem, not a preference – now what?

We need to become aware of our defence mechanisms…

What are Defence Mechanisms?

There are a number of definitions including –

• “a mental process initiated unconsciously to avoid experiencing conflict or anxiety” ~ Google
• “A defence mechanism is an unconscious psychological mechanism that reduces anxiety arising from unacceptable or potentially harmful stimuli. Sigmund Freud was one of the first proponents of this construct.^{” ~ Wikipedia}
• “…a group of mental processes that enables the mind to reach compromise solutions to conflicts that it is unable to resolve” ~ Encyclopeadia Brittanica
• “Psychology: an unconscious process, as denial, that protects an individual from unacceptable or painful ideas or impulses” ~ Dictionary.com
• “an automatic way of behaving or thinking by which you protect yourself from something, especially from feeling unpleasant emotions” ~ Cambridge Dictionary

Now we know what a defence mechanism is, let’s look at the different types of defence mechanisms.

Types of Defence Mechanisms

Defence mechanisms or reactions can allow us to avoid a situation in the short-term. Initially they can alleviate pain, however since defence mechanisms don’t resolve problems, they can hurt in the long-term.

Becoming aware of defence mechanisms is the first step to transforming them. Some types of defence mechanisms indicated in Changing for Good include –

• Denial – pretending something doesn’t exist, not admitting you have a problem.
• Rationalisation – having “good excuses“, justifications or explanations for behaviours.
• Intellectualisation – uses abstract analysis of behaviours to avoids emotional reactions to and painful awareness of his or her problem.
• Turning Outward: Projection and Displacement (i.e. “the best defence is a good defence.”) – when we feel we are unable or afraid to display our true feelings, we might redirect them against someone or something else.
• Turning Inward: Internalisation – turning our feelings inward, believing that we created the problem. By failing to express negative feelings appropriately, the result can be self-blame, self-accusation, low self-esteem and sometimes depression.

Over to You…

Do you recognise any of these defence mechanisms? If so, which one?

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Reference –

Prochaska, J., Norcross, J., & DiClemente, C. (2010). Changing for Good: A Revolutionary Six-Stage Program for Overcoming Bad Habits and Moving Your Life Positively Forward. New York, USA: Harper Collins Publishers.