The Why, What, Where, Who and When of Choices

The past few weeks, I have been talking to people about choices and the things we have control over. Subsequently, today I wanted to share some more about the why, what, where, who and when of choices.

Let’s get started…

 

Why Choices?

Quite simply because –

 “Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom”. ~ Victor Frankl

 

What is a Choice?

A Choice is –

  • “the act of choosing: the act of picking or deciding between two or more possibilities”Merriam Webster Dictionary
  • “an act or or the possibility of choosing”Cambridge Dictionary
  • “involves mentally making a decision”Wikipedia
  • “an act of selecting or making a decision when faced with two or more possibilities”Google

 

Where Can and/or Do I Make Choices?

Simply – everywhere! Yep, over the years, I have realised choices are made in each moment. When I first started my growth process years ago, I used to think we made choices like the following diagram –

Stimulus Response and Reaction

I now realise we have a choice between the stimulus and the response –

Freedom to Choose

Realising this has made such a difference in my life and I hope it can for you as well. More and more, I have learnt to make choices within the areas of life I have control over.

 

Who Makes Choices?

Again, simply – everyone! If we go back to the image above, you can see we are given the opportunity many, many times a day to make choices.

 

When Do We Make Choices?

Mmm – think you may be getting the drift of this! Again – in many places. Some examples of choices we could make during the day –

  • Moving your body – do you move your body each day, even though you have been advised to?
  • Eating nourishing food – do you eat food that helps you feel good and nourishes your body?
  • Connecting with friends and family – do you a variety of people in your circle that you stay connected with?

 

Over to You…

I hope this post has given you some insight in to the 5W’s of Choices. Over time, I have realised for myself, if I wanted to change my life, I needed to change the choices I was making, which is why I continue to make I’mPowering choices and live above the line. If you have any questions, please leave any questions or comments below.

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