What is stopping YOU from living the life you dream about? Yes, your dream in relation to your –
- relationship,
- career/business,
- health,
- fitness,
- finances, and
- what ever area of your life that is important to you!
Is it fear, the story you are telling yourself, your past experiences, perfectionism, vulnerability or maybe the thoughts of –
- I’m not good enough,
- I’m don’t have enough money,
- I’m unlovable, or
- I’m not worthy.
What ever it is, are you ready to discover the courage within so you can start writing a new ending to your life story?
An ending that is full of possibilities, with you playing the starring role?
What if you gave yourself permission right now to –
- write that book?
- start that business?
- skydive?
- call that guy you like?
- look after your health?
- or what ever it is that you have been putting off in your life?
How would that decision make you feel?
Is Feeling Good Worth the Effort?
Every minute of our lives, we are making decisions and choices. These choices can be conscious or unconscious and can affect the way we feel.
Do your thoughts and decisions make you feel good or not?
Do you feel expanded or contracted when you make them?
How do you truly want to feel and are you willing to focus your attention on that?
What If?
In my life, I have had a number of “what if” thoughts including –
- What if I try and fail?
- What if I can’t do it?
- What if I can’t handle it?
- What if I lose everything?
- What if they leave me?
- What if they don’t like me?
- What if that is not what I really want?
Over time, I started to realise these thoughts were draining and kept me imprisoned in a disempowering story. One day, I decided to start writing a different story and turn those “what ifs” around.
- What if I try and succeed?
- What if I can do it?
- What if I can handle it?
- What if I gain what I feel is missing?
- What if they stay with me?
- What if they like me?
- What if that is what I really want?
Now I am not perfect and still have challenging days, however each day I am getting clearer and clearer with what I truly desire in my life and I am grateful I gave myself permission to take a step toward what I was seeking many years ago and I hope you do as well. I have started to realise that “What If” are two words with endless possibilities…
Inspiration from Letters to Juliet
“Claire: Dear Claire, “What” and “If” are two words as non-threatening as words can be. But put them together side-by-side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life: What if? What if? What if? I don’t know how your story ended but if what you felt then was true love, then it’s never too late. If it was true then, why wouldn’t it be true now? You need only the courage to follow your heart. I don’t know what a love like Juliet’s feels like – love to leave loved ones for, love to cross oceans for but I’d like to believe if I ever were to feel it, that I will have the courage to seize it. And, Claire, if you didn’t, I hope one day that you will. All my love, Juliet.” ~ Letters to Juliet
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