What Are the Four Agreements?

Over ten years ago, I came across the Four Agreements by Don Migeul Ruiz. I cannot remember how it came in to my life (it may have been in my mindfulness training), however as soon as I heard the agreements they resonated with me.   The Four Agreements The Four Agreements is a simple, easy…

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Learn, Unlearn and Relearn – What Does it Mean to You?

If you have been around here for a while, you will know I am quite a curious person and have been on a search for many years to increase my own wisdom. Over the years, one thing I have noticed is that learning quite often doesn’t turn in to change (well maybe it is just…

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What’s the Difference Between a Goal, an Intention and an Outcome?

Yay it is new moon time and I am writing my goal, intention and outcome for the next month. As I was filling out my monthly development and personal growth planner template, I discovered I hadn’t written a post on the difference between a goal, an intention and an outcome, so here it is. In…

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You Deserve to Be Loved

If you are doubting yourself and whether or not you deserve to be loved, I hope the following quote can spark the truth within you. The quote has been attributed to many people, so I have left it as unknown. “You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your…

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Continuing the Shift from Body Resistance to Body Acceptance

This morning I went to the fracture clinic and it could be up to another 6 weeks until my fractured toe is healed. Needless to say, I needed to remain very present as the doctor gave me the news, so I didn’t go in to resistance. On the x-ray, I could see where the bone…

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Remembering to Return to Self-Compassion from Self-Loathing

One of the skills I continually support clients to develop is self-compassion. It is a skill I also needed support to develop. My adventure of self-compassion started a number of years ago, when I didn’t know self-compassion even existed and had a deep sense of unworthiness and self-loathing.   The Gift of Mindful Self-Compassion Before…

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Do You Use Your Love Language to Practise Self-Love?

You know self-care and self-love is important, however do you use your love language to practise self-love? If not, in this post I am going to share some ideas on how you can! Firstly though, lets start with the 5 love languages.   The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman In his book, the 5…

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